Marriage would not redeem you from your loneliness, it will not turn the loneliness switch to permanent off; and if you build yr life around yr hubby and expect him to chase all loneliness away and give you 200% support, you'll probably be more disappointed and angry... and so will the other party bah...
Marriage can turn you into a super kan cheong, jumpy woman nervous wreak, as if it came with the title of Mrs So-and-so or Wife of So-and-so. Every little thing will be magnified, and mole hills will be made mountains... The common justification heard is, " Becos i love him too much and he is too impt!" Err.... i think i hear bells... not jungle bells but bells calling out for help from the man.....
Its scary enough that you have to take a big risk and make a choice, which its consequence will bored for the REST OF YOUR LIFE only. And now the freebie of turning into a manic creature, only makes it far more spookier...
To my best buddy:
My dear fren, i think you have a serious case of inferiority; i believe this is the root cause of your anxiety and depression, and its also the key damage factor for the disappointment angry in yr married life and partner. I can pray for you, but i prefer you speak to God yourself. And if you take me as yr fren, i hope the two of you will go see a marriage counsellor. You two do love each other, just that both of you do not understand each other's love language. Go see a marriage counsellor, she will help you to find the translations u need for each other......
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