当事者和旁观者本来就不一样,看到的感受的迷惑的都有一定的差别,所以当自己从当事者的身份被调换成旁观者时 会一再的提醒自己把那张嘴管好。可是,有时候真的替对方紧张到非跳出来不可。。。
她一直在转牛角尖,一直在圆圈里绕;像是被蒙上了双眼底一直走。明明就可以把眼罩拿掉, 但嘴里一直在念没有光看不见。。。
而你
今天又掉眼泪了,你哭着说你没有办法相信“爱”了,因为上一段感情失败也述说了你的失败。。。 更证明了“爱”这东西是假象。
我问你:一段感情,爱情只需要一个人 就能秤的起来吗?
Example: A relationship is like a car, and love is like the fuel. Going into a relationship is like getting into a car, and hoping to progress to a different place. But for the car to move, fuel is required. The max capacity each of you is able to carry is only 100%, and the car has a fuel requirement of 200%. If only 1 of you is give your all to the car/relationship, the car can only move that far. And soon you find both the car & yrself no longer have any fuel left for either.
If both parties are giving their 100%, and still the car is not moving, it only means that either the car/relationship is faulty, or the type of fuel from either party is not correct. A car with fuel mixed with petrol and diesel will die eventually, not becos the fuel is a myth, but becos of incompatibility.
U cannot say blame the fuel if the car is not working the way you want ah!
And there is you, stop complaining about the government, complaining about your friends, about company, can u stop short yr gap for 1 min? So all your options are shit, still… u made the choice to stay put so shut up and think wat u want, then go find ways to get wat u wan. Here’s a tip, complaining doesnt help u get what u want; State yr requests to the right person and work it out lor! At the rate you going, u’r heading for doom!
Damn… my English sucks too…..
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